This post today is something very special to me and I’m sure it might hit a few notes for some others as well.
My wife’s Grandmother is now 82 years old. Her life story is one of the most incredible you will ever hear. After surviving concentration camps in WWII and escaping the Nazi’s by playing dead in a swamp of dead bodies for several days whilst the Nazi’s came through and stabbed random bodies to ensure they were dead, you know her life was meant to be special.
Although she has also suffered the loss of two husbands tragically, she has grown to see a beautiful family of a daughter and two grand daughters, one of which being my wife, Liza. Her second husband passed away many years ago now and with him, her dreams of travel.
Recently, Liza and myself sparked those dreams once again by asking her things that she always wanted to do. She humoured us with these questions, talking of what were now seemingly unreachable dreams of taking a cruise. At 82, doctors have said she can no longer travel by air and now has her body feeling the effects. She even looked longingly at brochures before throwing them in the bin and justifying with “I’m too old” or “I don’t have the time”, when really, it was just the money and the reason to do it.
Liza and I have always talked of doing something special for her grandmother and just a few weeks ago sat down and made a decision once and for all… “why not send your grandmother on a cruise?”. We acted immediately. Liza’s grandmother is not getting younger, so the sooner the better we thought and just a few days later we’d found the perfect trip!
12 days cruising from Sydney Australia around the Pacific Islands from the luxury of a balcony suite on board the Dawn Princess, a five star super-liner!
Some of you may be asking how could you justify to do something like this for someone special in your family. My answer is, how could you not do something like this. We may not get this opportunity again if we wait.
Money is just an idea anyway. Who knows how long Liza’s Grandmother will live? Maybe decades? We are just so grateful that we have the opportunity to do this now.
I wish for you the chance to see the look on the face of the person you love when you do something special for them that they have wanted to do all their lives. That moment in itself was worth every single cent!
Even if it is not something as lavish as a cruise, even if it is just the gift of time… Give a gift today to someone you love while you still have the opportunity!